Men in My Life

Hey beauties,

I was about to write an update of my life, my chocolates, my dreamy mexican simple life and so on and then I thought, I want juicy things so why not to share a topic that I have been thinking to write about for a long time. My love life.

And the funny thing is that by accident it happens to be an international women day. So I raise my cacao toast to all the women around who took part in my life, taught me so much, mirrored and enriched my life. You know who you are and I so appreciate you in this cute life of ours.

But let's continue with juice 😂

I had many conversations around this topic and I always found myself in so much gratitude because nearly all men that got romantically involved with me wether that was a monogomous relationship, polyamorous fun, open relationships or lovers these men taught me a lot.

I have nevet felt a toxicity and always wonderred why so many women complain about men, to me, it felt that healthy mature creative fun spiritual affectionate men are everywhere. I am still a fond believer of that. 

Now the first example of a man in my life was far away from a healthy example. My dad was an alcoholic and was abusing my mom in front of me and my sister for many years. So I really saw what kind of man I didn't want in my life. I also saw the beautiful parts of my dad that were still not eaten by alcohol and in my little virgo catalog I kept those ones and made sure that men will come to my life the way I was imagining them. And they did.

Well one may ask so why are you now single? I guess men, like friends come and go, some staying for a month or a few brief moments while others stay forever in your life. I believe that the energy stays around for a long time but like with everything, life is full of change and some teachers and mirrors serve both sides for certain time in your life.

There have been challenges and difficult moments, there have been some little slips with some lovers but generally speaking I am very grateful for these beautiful men in my life that shared more than a romantic moment. 

Women too. I swear there was a moment in my life when I thought I am a lesbian, well, more like bisexual, but my dear friend Hugo kept reminding me that it is just a period in my life. And he was right. I definitely don't label my sexuality because I fall in love with a person, not a gender but let's say men have always made my head spin around.

If another person is a projection of mine then I have seen a lot of sides of me. I have seen some faults that have been deeply burried within me, I have seen some incredible powers that have never been unlocked before, I have seen some beauty and the darkness. And I give thanks to these souls because they have touched my heart, they have made crazy in love, they have made me understand myself more so I keep evolving as a conscious woman. 

You know who you are. Keep spreading that love and keep remembering that you are my projection and I am yours.

Ayyy, is this connected with a Spring energy? Who else is feeling juicy or am I the only one? 😂

The Earth Within

Hello all,

I know time doesn't exist really but this month felt like half a year to me.

January here in my beloved home feels super powerful, active and deep. I feel that this month or this 2025 year is banging already.

My cacao babies are reaching more and more hearts, on top I get some cool extra pesos from outdoor activities with visitors and I am feeling like expanding and collaborating more.

My energy levels are nicely harmonised with close friendships and fun adventures and I make sure I get to spend some time by myself so my cup is full.

The weather is nice and comfortable, chilly nights ( I am totally now a Mexican 😂) and warm days.

The ocean is full of dolphins, whales and sharks which truly makes my heart sing.

But I wanna share some story here because it feels like an extraordinary event that happenned in my life.

In the beginning of this month me and a friend of mine decided to walk the dogs by the river, a bit furher away from where we live but in the same region.  Nothing different and not too deep in the woods.

Well, little did we know that while having our vegan picnic by the river 2 men would approach us with one mission- to take our money or everything we would have valuable to them.

They took out guns to scare us, one had a mask, the other gave orders but after something like 30 min of talking to them the miracle happened-not only that they left us with our things but they even gave back the phone they already had in their hands. Luck, you would say? I don't know. It felt like many things.

The spirits and protectors were with us, no doubt at all, perhaps the men underestimating 2 white women speaking fluent Spanish. We stood up for ourselves, and explained our situation here in Mexico, we talked to them like human to human, understanding the risks but standing up for ourselves and not agreeing with their requirements. The adrenaline was pumping in our bodies but we stayed calm and probably found some inner Earth force within. It was not fun, nor easy but the pistols did not scare us.

It could have finished in many crazy ways but it finished how it did. And for that I give thanks to life. And give thanks to Mexico. Ang give thanks to this incredibly strong power we women can access.

This story is not to scare or show off but truly a documented story for me to remember and to be thankful.

I am still in love with Mexico.

With love, protection and inspiration,

Ligita

Social Ligita

Hola mis queridas y queridos 🤍

It has been a long time since I sat down and put my thoughts and experiences in words. I was busy in action.

These last two months have been full on social power.And I have been waiting for this social fun for a looong time.

Living in Mexico my season rythtm went upside down. What used to be a full on summer power in june, july, august became a winter here for my soul. There has been a lot of soul digging in september and october too.

I have felt a solitude often by my side but this time I was not so harsh with him. I greeted him more friendly in order to learn more about myself.

I felt fears surficing out, I questioned some old beliefs that don't serve me any longer. I questioned friendships and relationships. I questioned myself.

And very quickly the winter of my soul was not here anymore, giving space for action, socialising, doing.

My parents came to visit, which I call an event of the year 2024.

To share my love for Mexico with them felt like introducing my big boyfriend and secretely wishing for them to accept him.

I often talk about Mexico, like my big love. My commited relationship and no wonder I had that little pressure within that my parents too would catch a bit of its charm. And they did.

We had so many adventures together, they have been so adaptive and flexible and curious that it really inspired me. I won't hide, it also brought some challenges of sharing space or accommodating the needs but mostly I felt honoured. For them to reach me took 2 days non-stop travelling. Even the weary traveller would get tired of that. And they were fresh as morning sun rays 😂

When they left I felt that gap I carry with me.

As much as I can create my spiritual families everywhere I go, there is nothing replacable than my mom. With her and my stepdad I felt like I had this team with me all the time. I think there is nothing like people that raised you up. They have seen all of you.

When they left I cried. I am still very attached to my mum and physical separation comes hard on me. But within time I was again walking my own individual path.

And then my friends came. Another team by my side.

What a lucky girl I am to be loved by so many incredible souls. I don't take it for granted.

November also brought my first market which felt like another dream come true. It also brought a motorbike, new connections, little short romance, social gatherings, friends, action, swimming, whales and dolphins, pains and joys.

My heart is still griefing a very important connection in my life and as much as I have fun in my life I am also going through a very big letting go. I am hold though by the love of my friends and I can see how much that means to me and how much healing it brings to me.

Life is full of challenges but sometimes it takes time until we learn to navigate through them. I am nearly there, still with very open heart and a very clear vission of what I want in my life. And when something loses its continuisity we are even closer to that clarity. And clarity has been a word of mine of 2024 which makes a lot of sense to me now.

I have no idea if I will make another post here this year but somehow I feel reflective about all the adventures that has passed in this year. But about that, next post.

With a lot of clarity and love,

Ligita